No one ever said a lasting marriage or avoiding divorce is easy. In fact, the following statistics indicate the odds of a couple having a fulfilling marriage in which the mutual attraction and emotional bonds continue to grow stronger are about as favorable as odds were for every passenger on the Titanic finding a lifeboat seat. In fact, the average marriage in California lasts just seven years. Seventy-five percent of those who divorce, remarry, but sixty-five percent of those marriages also end in divorce. That’s right!

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It’s delicious to feel well nourished in relationships. There’s a yearning and hunger we bring to our partners for all kinds of food: warmth, kindness, appreciation, time spent together. However, when food is not forthcoming or not enough, some will do anything to get fed. Right from the moment we are born, we connect being fed with being loved.

Many become fixated on one person, who they see as their sole source of well-being. The first thing to notice is the intense desire for receiving. This is the idea of the child - feed me and all will be well.

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While there’s no real answer to this question, there are some important things to keep in mind.

Many people worry that it’s too soon to have feelings for another person and worry about what their family and friends will say. In reality, you feel what you feel when you feel it, and you’ll know when the time is right. Don’t second guess yourself and don’t let others tell you what you need to be happy.

When you get a divorce, it’s very common to miss the companionship and closeness that you once had. So what can you do?

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The romance, the time of dating, the learning about each other and what things make each other mad, and finally the proposal, the wedding, the great time at the wedding reception, and your new life starts. During this period of time, nobody goes into a marriage thinking that a divorce is on the horizon.

But divorce is a reality for almost 50% of marriages that happen today. This is not just Hollywood where a typical marriage is almost a farce and the typical Hollywood marriage time is measured in weeks and months instead of years and decades. This is a serious threat that is going on throughout the entire nation.

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